Pause to refuel

Pause to refuel

As we navigate changing seasons, perhaps we should take a cue from the birds and pause to refuel. The weather has turned cold and signals change ahead. In Anchorage, flocks of ducks and geese gather on lawns and parks to feed and rest. The past two weekends, the swans have dropped in for a rest…

Put yourself first

Put yourself first

Do the mere words “put yourself first” sound like sacrilege? Does reading that title make you cringe? Most women have a hard time prioritizing our own well-being because we were taught from a young age to prioritize others. I grew up with a little Sunday school song based on the acroynym JOY. The song lyrics…

We need buddies

We need buddies

In every season, we need buddies. We need to connect closely with another human, whether it’s with our spouse, our children, our parents, our siblings, or a good friend. And right now, we’re just not able to connect in the ways we used to connect. I take a walk every morning with my husband, my…